Last weekend I had the pleasure of working and spectating at the NCDCTA Capital Dressage Classic. I relished in the opportunity to mentor a young dressage enthusiast in the art of bit checking and ring stewarding, watching talented pairs practice, parade and passage under the covered areas, and the best yet, see a dear friend accomplish her dreams of competing at the fairgrounds.
Category Archives: The Horse
Adventures in Horse Shopping: It Takes All Types
I feel so sorry sometimes for the people in my life right now that are sending me horses. I am so picky! I’ve been asked what I am looking for, and really, it covers all bases.
I’ve now seriously contemplated two different unstarted 3 year olds. If you have seen instagram, you got a glimmer of the latest- a 3 year old Akhal Teke stallion. Very, very sweet horse that was obviously intelligent and athletic. This is a breed I had read about before, and is often featured in articles like this because of their oh-so-shiny coats. I have to admit, seeing that horse come out into the sunlight, it really was rather dazzling.
I also got to sit on a super fancy warmblood gelding over the weekend, a giant floaty creature with the most amazing suspension in his gaits. But it takes more than fancy gaits to be an eventer, and so I decided he was not quite the right fit for me.
I’ve got a couple more contacts/horses I’m expecting information on before I make another move. But tonight, I look forward to heading out to the barn and walking Riley about the property. It will be nice to start some semblance of a normal routine again! That is, if anything with horses can ever really be described as normal. Or routine, for that matter.
Introducing Riley
If nothing comes to a head in the next several days, I am seriously considering putting a pause on aggressively horse shopping. It gets exhausting, yo.
Luckily, I happen to know some people (*cough* my parents), who have horses that they would love to be worked.

Riley
This is O’Riley. Or basically Riley, since no one calls him that anymore. You may recognize him from a ways back, as I’ve known him for a long time.

Baby Riley
A long, long time. Riley is the product of our former Haflinger mare, Margo, and my former horse, Ivan, the Irish Draught. So technically he’s an Irish Sport Horse.. Er.. Cob.
With the help of Bette, I was the first person to sit on Riley. I did all his initial groundwork, taught him to lead, was there when he was weaned, and so on and so forth.
Riley’s been not much more than a pasture ornament for the last decade (ugh), with the exception of a few brief periods of training. Otherwise, he goes out on trail rides once a month or so with my sister, and basically lives the life of a pasture puff.

Well, this weekend he was in for a bit of a shock. He loaded onto the trailer for the first time in years and made the trip to Raleighwood, where I’ve given him the last couple days to settle in and get used to the routine of coming in and out and being in a large barn.
The plan is for me to train Riley up a bit, get him fit, and depending on how long he’s with me, perhaps go to a few shows or maiden level events in the fall. In the meantime, I have some decisions to make for myself regarding the horses I saw this weekend, I have another horse to see tonight or tomorrow, and then we’ll just see where it goes from there.
Welcome Riley!
Nope.
So I did not come away with a new pony yesterday. I so wanted to, I mean, we had the unicorn horn ready and everything.
To someone else, he may have be considered to pass the pre-purchase exam. But there was one question mark that came up, and no one could guarantee how it would go in the long run. So with the memory of having to retire a 9 year old horse fresh in my mind, I walked away. Ben and Jerry and a glass or three of wine consoled me. I’m disappointed, but I feel like I made the right decision for myself.
The search continues!
Foster by the Numbers: A Timeline
Tomorrow I do a PPE on a potential new horse. So in hopes that tomorrow I start a new journey, with a new partner, I thought it would be worth looking back on all that Foster and I did together. No matter how tomorrow goes, whatever new horse I end up with has some serious shoes to fill. And not the expensive, corrective type, please.
Anyone looking for a sweet mare?
I know that PPE’s don’t always go the right way, hence my being all mysterious about the potential creature until it’s over and the verdict is in. I’ve also allowed myself to keep [casually] looking at horses online as well, though nothing is quite tugging at my heart strings in the same way said creature is.
However, I came across a rather sweet mare that caught my eye. Her unusual color, nice front end, and let’s not even mention that tail. Even though she doesn’t quite fit what I’ve been looking for, I couldn’t help thinking that this sweet horse looks like a really cool cat who deserves an amazing home.
Since I have no exciting update that I can actually talk about right now, I figured today’s post may better serve the general horse community by spreading the news about a nice looking pony who needs a new human. For more details, check out her listing with the Equine Welfare Society here.
Adventures in Horse Shopping: Love at first sight?
What is it about a horse that makes them the one for you? Do they just fall into your lap? Do you just know when you see them for the first time? Or does it take spending time with them or in the saddle to know if it’s the right decision?
Like I’ve said before, I think horse shopping is a lot like dating. Sometimes you know when it’s a clear ‘no’ (cue Meghan Trainor), and sometimes it’s a ‘yes’ (but don’t we all make mistakes sometimes?), and sometimes, of course, it’s a ‘maybe’. Just like I would probably swoon if Adam Levine came up and swept me off my feet, but that doesn’t mean he’s the right match for me in the long run. So what is it that makes it clear to us when we really have met our four-legged other half?
I don’t have a good answer, but I’m hoping I’ve found it. I’ve got a pre-purchase exam scheduled for next week, and I’m daydreaming that this is the answer I’ve been looking for. Keep your fingers crossed.
Let’s Discuss: When to start a horse?
You may have picked up from recent posts that I am looking at babies (or tweens, however you want to classify 3 yo ponies) that have not been started in addition to horses already under saddle. With these horses I have to consider when and how they will be brought under saddle.
For myself, I have done the following as far as starting a baby horse:
- Teaching leading, cross-tying, desensitization, bathing, clipping, fly-spraying, etc
- Introduce bridle and saddle
- Sit on horse for first time
- Ride horse with <10 rides under saddle
… And onward from there. It’s my own personal opinion that the time to start horses depends largely on their bodies. Some breeds mature faster than others and can then be started earlier. Haflingers, for instance, are typically started at the age of 2, though I wouldn’t recommend any really heavy work until later. The Irish Draught gelding pictured yesterday I would start immediately, but hold off jumping for another year.
A lot of warmbloods mature a bit later, and need more time to grow before getting started under saddle. With these guys, I would prefer the approach of throwing on tack, learning to hack, walk trot and maybe cantering under saddle, and then being chucked out in a field for a season to grow up and just horse. Then, assuming they have matured and everything appears a little more “in place” with their bodies, they could be started in a light program with gradually increasing workload.
With both of these scenarios, I think it’s important to wait to jump until the 4 year old year. Sure, start them over poles, cavaletti, and maybe some teeny tiny fences, but I think its better to treat those joints as being precious rather than attack a full jumping program. Personally, that’s why the Young Event Horse program makes me a little edgy- if these horses are competing at basically the novice level for these competitions, they are presumably schooling higher at home on a regular basis. Jumping a 4 year old that high makes me cringe a little inside thinking of those fragile joints. I know there are those that will disagree with me, but hey, my blog, my opinion.
What are your thoughts on starting horses? When is the ideal time to get a baby under saddle? Do you have a certain approach you prefer, or an approach that you abhor?
Adventures in Horse Shopping: Hi Ho Silver
I had a lovely, horse-stuffed weekend of visiting friends and getting to share some amazing moments with them.
Other moments from the weekend, while amazing, were, let’s just say, and little more of the jaw-dropping nature:
That would be a three year old Irish Sport Horse gelding having a rather rambunctious moment, at my poor mother’s expense. If I seem nonchalant, standing there watching, its only because it happened so quickly that I don’t think anyone really had time to react. Sorry, mum! Needless to say, even though in reality this gelding was a sweet and talented horse, we decided it was likely a bad omen that he nearly stomped my mother to death. Pass.
In other equine developments, I will hopefully have some kind of news to share next week, so stay tuned. And if you want to see the whole video of the dramatic moment posted above, check out instagram.
In Search Of.. Aftermath of an honest ad
Many of you have seen by now that the Chronicle of the Horse picked up my ISO ad after it started gaining attention in the couple facebook groups I posted it in (Eventing Horses for sale & Dressage Horses for Sale). At last glance it has garnered almost 900 likes and over 70 shares between the various groups- needless to say it’s been the most “viral” content published on this blog.
Since initially posting my ad on facebook, I’ve received dozens of horse suggestions in the comments of the ads and in my inbox. Some were truly amazing offers that were hard to turn down (really really hard to turn down), others were not so difficult to politely veto. Most of them 15h mares. Not that there is anything wrong with 15h mares, but when you’re looking for a 15.3h+ gelding, they don’t exactly meet the requirements. Then of course there were the droolworthy horses that meant every requirement, and their owners just stopped by to dangle the carrot in front of me with a “Oh, well, if your budget was only 4 times as big…”. I’m exaggerating. Sort of. Not really.
Dangling aside, it’s been really something to once again be thrilled by the equestrian community. To have complete strangers share my post and support me in my search is something I never dreamed would happen. To have friends left, right, and center shoot me suggestion horses is damn near delightful, and I have definitely followed through in going to look at a couple of them. To have people reach out and relate to having to retire a loved partner and live through that anguish with you is truly humbling. Horsepeople in general may be a crazy ass bunch, but man, they have heart.
So I suppose I just want to say thank you again, because I am so grateful for all of you going on this crazy, hilarious, sparkle and fairy dusted hunt for the perfect unicorn. Thanks for making this such an adventure, and I hope you’ll stick around for the ride. Happy weekend, y’all.











